“Hey honey, it’s time to go.”
Transitions can be tough. When you approach someone who is wrapped up in an activity and need them to change their behavior to accommodate your needs, it can often result in conflict. This little tip can make those requests go much more smoothly by setting expectations and engaging the person you want to influence in a meaningful way.
How it works
What: You need someone to stop what they are doing and do what you ask.
When: Use this when you want to manage a transition without drama. It might require negotiation, but it will generally make transitions much less painful. Examples:
- You want to leave a party, and your partner isn’t ready.
- You need the kids to stop playing and get in the car.
- You want a co-worker or subordinate to stop what they are doing and focus on a new task.
Benefit: Instead of demanding someone change their behavior, you’re asking them to partner with you to decide the best time for the transition to occur. It doesn’t mean you have to give up your position; instead, it encourages a conversation that more often results in a cooperative outcome without fighting or bad feelings.
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